[theqoo] CAN YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR BEST FRIEND OF 12 YEARS SKIPPING YOUR MOM’S FUNERAL BECAUSE SHE’S PREGNANT?

“Is it understandable that my best friend of 12 years isn’t coming to my mom’s funeral just because she’s pregnant?”

She’s 10 weeks pregnant

1. I can understand if they’re feeling sick, but I can’t understand if they’re going to work and doing all their daily tasks just fine 

2. Ten weeks is still the early stage, and early-stage miscarriages carry the highest risk

3. I don’t get it. I’m not even sure if there’s a superstition involved

4. If I were you, I wouldn’t invite her at all. If something happens, you won’t be able to bare the consequences of it 

5. I do get it but hmm… I obviously will be sad. It’s still your mom ㅠ

6. It is only right to attend the funeral when a parent passes away

7. There’s no point in feeling hurt or upset about it; everyone just lives their own lives.

If you don’t click, you just naturally drift apart. That’s all there is to it

8. When you see things like this, the whole practice of women keeping up with each other’s special occasions and milestones seems completely pointless. Once someone has a baby, you end up not seeing or keeping in touch with them for years anyway. So being close friends for years doesn’t really seem to matter much…

9. But 10 weeks is the most dangerous time..

10. I wouldn’t even tell her to come…